This week · Parshas Vayeira
Why Not to Me?
A little boy, four or five years old, went in to his grandfather on his birthday to ask for a bracha. His grandfather was the Tzemach Tzedek. The boy started to cry.
He had learned that Hashem came to Avraham, and Hashem did not come to him!
His grandfather told him: Avraham was ninety-nine years old, a great tzaddik, and he still decided to do a new mitzvah, the bris. Someone like that is worthy that Hashem should come to him. The boy stopped crying. He grew up to be the Rebbe Rashab.
At the Shabbos table This Shabbos is the Rebbe Rashab’s birthday. What would you ask Hashem for on your birthday?
Every year on his birthday, the twentieth of Cheshvan, a little boy went in to his grandfather, the Tzemach Tzedek, to ask for a bracha. One year, when he was four or five, he came in and burst into tears.
His grandfather asked why he was crying. The boy said he had learned that Hashem appeared to Avraham Avinu, and he was crying because Hashem did not appear to him. It was the week of Parshas Vayeira.
His grandfather answered: when a tzaddik of ninety-nine decides that he must still do the mitzvah of bris, he is worthy that Hashem should appear to him. The boy stopped crying.
The boy was Sholom DovBer, who became the Rebbe Rashab. The Rebbe told this story on his birthday, and this Shabbos is Parshas Vayeira and the twentieth of Cheshvan again.
At the Shabbos table The Rebbe said any Jew may ask, even with tears, for Hashem to show Himself to him. If you could ask Hashem for one thing with all your heart, what would it be?
He was four or five years old, and it was his birthday, the twentieth of Cheshvan. Each year on that day he went in to his grandfather, the Tzemach Tzedek, for a blessing. That year he burst into tears. He had learned that Hashem appeared to Avraham Avinu, and he was crying because Hashem did not appear to him. The boy was Sholom DovBer, the future Rebbe Rashab.
The parsha opens with Hashem appearing to Avraham as he sat at the entrance of his tent in the heat of the day. Rashi explains that Hashem came “to visit the sick man”: it was the third day after Avraham’s bris, which he had done at ninety-nine.
The Tzemach Tzedek answered: when a tzaddik of ninety-nine decides that he must still have a bris, he is worthy that Hashem should appear to him.
The Rebbe drew two lessons. From the boy’s tears: any Jew may ask, crying, for Hashem to appear to him. He quoted the Rebbe Rayatz: “Jewish years are not counted by the passport.” Someone may be old on paper and, in the things that count, a small child, and he may still ask. From the grandfather’s answer: what makes a person worthy is knowing that he is not yet where he should be, and that he has to change.
At the Shabbos table The Tzemach Tzedek said even a tzaddik of ninety-nine still had something to fix. What is one thing about yourself you want to make better this week?
Bereishis 18:1, and Rashi there · Toras Menachem vol. 7, Shabbos Parshas Vayeira, 20 Cheshvan 5713